Have you ever struggled with the fear of being rejected? I know
I have! There was a time when the fear kept me
from picking up the phone and calling prospects.
In the home business industry, we hear a lot of no’s. It’s just part of the
process of reaching and achieving success. But here is something to keep
in mind, nothing of significant has ever happened without some sort of
struggle occurring. The struggle, the challenge, the difficulty, the
fight, the perseverance…. these are the things that make an achievement
significant.
If I told you I was going to run 10 feet today, would that impress
you? No, because it’s no big deal. But if I told you I was going to
run 10 miles, that’s much more impressive because there is more struggle
and more difficulty involved.
Most of us in the home business industry want to accomplish something of
substance, we want to impact lives and make a difference in the lives of
others. In order to achieve this, we must realize that we have to push
through the difficult times in order to create something significant.
Did you know Walt Disney was
rejected over 300 times when he was trying to sell the concept of Mickey
Mouse, which then grew to the dynasty that is known as Disney now?
When you look at the billions that his company is worth now, it’s a
no-brainer that he would go through 300 nos. But at the time, can you
imagine the number of folks who were telling him to give up?
What about Michael Jordan? He didn’t make his high
school basketball team. He kept going, improving his skills, getting
better and now he is a world-wide name.
Without people pushing through
major rejection we would not have Harry Potter, Kentucky Fried Chicken,
….the lightbulb.
Elvis was told
by the Grand Ole Opry he wasn’t suited for the music world. Lucille
Ball and Marilyn Monroe – both were failure and experienced much
rejection.
Why do we even know these names? Because they worked past the
rejection. They did not allow a no to stop them.
Here are 7 quick tips to help you in overcoming your fear of rejection:
1) Keep The Big Picture In Mind – You Are Working For Something Bigger
2) Don’t Take It Personally – It’s Seriously Is Not About You
3) Move On – Don’t Focus On The No, Focus On Your Activity
4) Learn From The Experience – Look At Your Process, Look At Your Skills, Look At Their Experience
5) Realize You Are Not Alone – Every Successful Person Works Past Rejection
6) Have Goals That Keep You In Motion – A No Is Only A Stepping Stone To The Next Yes
7) Keep A Positive Attitude – Affirmations, Personal Development and Being Around Other Successful People Help!
I hope this post and tips helped you today. Feel free to comment and share with your team. If there is anything I can help you with, please feel free to reach me directly at 612-562-8219. I believe in you, you are designed for greatness! Have a beautiful day and we'll see you tomorrow :)